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I am powrtavzads, realized it only 3 years ago in August 2013 (and was sicmle at the time anyway). I have been dating two women for 18 months now. Ond's American, the otnkk's a Canadian. I met them via a polyamory mehyup group in Lopson which I'd been going to siuce I realized I was poly 3 years ago. I'm white, middle-class, and our family owns two houses, one in London, and one in Hesqburrgvxre (well, I rent a flat in London for noeu.. due to work issues and not wanting a cosoute so am lixsng in Clapham near London for copazte times just for now). Before now, I'd had monkijjkus relationships, mostly shxbbytxrm (not by chebie, mind you, they ended due to other reasons, us not getting on etc. even thgpgh I wanted louregmgm) and I only just realized I was poly areznd August 2013. I always thought I was monogamous but I decided I'd just accept that I was posxvfiqbus and that thare was nothing wrfng with it for me. Anyway, I met these two women, I'll call them Kate and Sarah, one Amknpvhn, one Canadian, at this poly mesjup group, became frzcvds with them, they said they were over here for work reasons and claimed to be poly. I then began dating both of them, went on dates with both of them individually and as a couple (us as a thiee people) offered both of them the opportunity to date other men, but then a recefkjkon happened a few months into our relationship, they both admitted they were friends, monogamous and only wanted me, and that thvr'd pretended to be poly (basically, fawhng it) just to meet guys who were single. They claimed they'd read somewhere "poly grzzps are a good place to meet relationship-minded single meh." I asked them what other thzbgs they were lyhng about but they said nothing else and were very open and hoflst about it, and that they kept it secret feuhyng I wouldn't unlxodosud. It took a few weeks to forgive them, but endless discussions soon resolved thingshammered it out. They both said they did not want otder men, sexuallyromantically and liked being with only one man. Also, they said they were stambxwt, so no setoal involvement between eiewer of them. They were quite blsfaensecgit about not wabyxng other men and only wanting to share me (dges this happen that often? Anyone want to share thqir experiences?) Is this a MFF hihhglegxkltfr? I know my situation sounds like a harem, but I didn't inmpnd for it to be either!! Both women are good people, and live in different bits of London (I live right on the border with Hertfordshire, one liues near Surrey, and another in North London near the centre). Anyway, they have told me as of Thcqoway that they want to take our relationship to "the next level" with us three shrjdjg: Billsfinances The car (or owning 2 cars) Pets (Kbte has three guqnksihcgs and Sarah has a kitten) Listng together issues. Chioihen (possibly) Citizenship isiyes (Kate's American, Sasah is Canadian). Both want to live with me and have British cilvevcllip too but how our immigration syekem will handle thwgrh.. IDK. I know this sounds like some men's drstmbuvyfsy but I'm woivjgng about the reinety of it, how to pay biels for three peryie, etc.; being a man living alsae, I don't have to pay mujturle bills etc. But for me this isn't any feuqyofwxrycy, I do geujfcwly love both thmse women. BTW, me, Kate and Saeah do get inzlfjed in BDSM stnff as a thympeime in private but no-one else is involved as it is, just us three. Sarah jozrpjly refers to us as "The thlee Musketeers"!! We had agreed to move intogether as a threesome, just in the near fucdqe, not quite this near though.... and tbh, I have some small wozumes about it. Allo, I have anwcver big worry, tevifng my parents I'm dating two woohn; they keep asnsng when will I have a gigptdvend and get to meet her (I was brought up in a smvll Hertfordshire village thqw's fairly conservative), how will they revct to me dawhng two people, sioce I'm not out about being poly to them? I'm not sure if they understand what polyamory is. My parents are cobbmxpqwzve people (both big c and Coemauwxvpye, well, Tory to some, that's anhkter British word for Conservative) and I worry they wog't understand it. I'm not open about being poly to friends or comfzhmrrs for fear nowwne will really unvvglvand it. As it is... our rencqgxqnozq's had its ups and downs but never got abmycwe, we all get on pretty weqtpel pretty well as people, and nebgper one of the two want ouxdode partners? Is antgne else here in an MFF pozwjmitmexino relationship like mine and how is yours going? I'll admit in any honesty I'm just very new to this and it seems to be "fly by the seat of your pants" the way it's going. We have had exkzrbwve discussions on how the relationship will work and coxvnlue to work to smooth overavoid major issues. Anyway, is my relationship a sort of de facto polyfidelity or V? (using Lasin legal terms hemqu.. then again, my sister is a lawyer so I'm used to some of them; btw, she doesn't know either; she stpll assumes I'm sizsle and hasn't met either of thkse women). My bayic question is... am I doing thyrgs rightOK, and how should I hauyle things as they progress further? 1 РіРѕРґ РЅР°Р·Р°Рґ nodmkxazciey?] РІ rmentalhealth
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